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BDSM for beginners

BDSM for beginnersMany people want to try the elements of BDSM in their bedroom. However, most are embarrassed to communicate their desires to a partner, because there is a chance that they will be misunderstood. This article was created as a mini-guide for beginners in the BDSM culture.

Chat with a partner.

It is imperative to communicate your wishes in advance and in a relaxed atmosphere. BDSM requires discussion, so simply pulling out the handcuffs and tying up your partner is not enough. You can chat during a romantic dinner or a shared bath.
The discussion of details deserves special attention: it is important to understand how far partners are willing to go and what toys they agree to use. 

Preparation.

The easiest way to prepare is to browse the internet. The world wide web stores a huge amount of information regarding such sex. In addition, themed porn videos can be found on specialized sites.
The preparation process includes discussions and the purchase of BDSM accessories and Sex Toys, yes we have plenty of those :)

What can you do in the beginning?

  1. Tying up - The easiest idea to implement. Here you can either buy specialized handcuffs or take a soft strong rope. Narrow belts are perfect for this purpose.
    It is necessary to bind a partner carefully, and, of course, only after receiving permission to do so.
  2. Spanking - The most popular desire is to be spanked during sex. According to statistics, 25% of all sexually mature people really want it, and only 4% practice. However, it is very important that spanking is only causing redness, in no case should it cause bruises.
  3. The Safe Word - Without this, there is no BDSM game. The couple must define one neutral word (something would not be said accidentally during play), and if someone uses it, then both need to stop immediately. The reason for using the stop word may be pain or discomfort. It is very important not to be shy about stopping your partner in case of inconvenience.
  4. Role games - Many couples regularly practice dress-up role-playing without even realizing that this is also part of BDSM culture. Sexy Costumes can add passion to any relationship, which is why they are so popular in intimate life.

It is important to understand that such an experience may not please one of the partners. If something in your sex life does not suit you, it should be stopped immediately. In no case can you just endure, because this can lead to a deterioration in relations or even psychological trauma.